While I did have a strongly sexual fascination with male nudity, I figured it was a conundrum. What if I did partake in male nudity in a non-sexual setting? What if I could make my nudist desires feel more normal and less of a sexual fantasy? I figured partaking in mutual nudity with other men as much as possible would probably work out my temptations for sexual sin, lessening over time. Several years ago, I joined a gym and took personal training lessons to get my body into shape. Much to my dismay, I found out that most men, especially young men, will never use the showers at the gym and just wait until they get home. Most of the men who did shower were wrinkled, droopy, old guys. The older men still get naked and waltz around the locker room in their birthday suits because they come from a time when male nudity was normal. This locker room revelation disappointed me, and I figured the only way I could experience mutual nudity was by connecting with other nudists. I found a nudist website, and it seemed perfect.
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Dear Annie: My husband and I are in our mids. I know that raising kids today is nothing like it was 30 years ago, but Jake seems well adjusted. Jake recently asked if he and his friends could sleep in the nude when they stay over. I checked with the other parents, and they confirm this. They frequently appear in the nude at breakfast if they are going skinny-dipping in the pool after. She sees no need for them to dress. I have no problem with Jake sleeping naked in his room or skinny-dipping — even the coed kind.
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I have always been a "nudie booty" in my own home. I would come home from work or class and just shed my clothes. It's not so much that I dislike clothes; I actually love them quite a bit. I love to be able to express myself with my wardrobe, but when I want to relax, I don't want anything to do with them. My husband had always liked it in the past. He'd come home from a long day at work to find his naked girlfriend sitting at her computer playing World of Warcraft , or his naked newly big-breasted pregnant wife sleeping on the couch. He even thought it was cute after our first son was born to find the two of us naked napping in the bed. But something changed when we found out our second was a boy too.
Warning: This post contains full-frontal male nudity and may be inappropriate for work environments. Sure, depicting a naked body can lead to objectification and sexualization as women can surely attest. But a powerful nude representation also has the power to be empowering, liberating, and, of course, beautiful. In , photographer Abigail Ekue embarked on a mission to photograph the unclothed male body in a truthful, expressive and direct manner, a style Ekue saw was lacking in the larger cultural lexicon.